The Effect Of An Emotional Affair On Your Marriage

The Effect Of An Emotional Affair On Your Marriage

Some people may get the wrong idea about an emotional affair. They may even wonder how such an affair can affect a marriage. Couples may believe that they can control their spouses by not allowing them to have friends because it can lead to such an affair. Having friends does not in itself lead to emotional affairs. Couples have friendships with people that they have made together during the marriage all the time. They also have their own individual friends that they like to hang out with.

These type of affairs start when a couple stop sharing an emotional bond, but the person begins to share that emotional connection with someone else outside of the marriage. This can be devastating to a person. It can sometimes be even more damaging than an actual affair. When a spouse begins to share all of their secrets, ideas, dreams, and goals with someone else it can be heartbreaking. A person’s spouse is supposed to be their best friend. They are the ones that their spouses should be sharing these emotional talks with. A spouse can be made to feel completely left out in the cold when their spouse is sharing wonderful emotional times together while the spouse is sitting at home wondering where they are.

Advertisement: If you ever need any help with fixing your marriage, I would suggest you take a look at this video (opens in a new tab):

The ultimate couples guide to a perfect marriage by Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

Over forty one percent of spouses have come clean about their emotional infidelities, but have been surprised to find that their spouses were even more angry than if they were to admit they had an affair. This may confuse some spouses when they believe that they have done nothing wrong because they did not cheat on their spouse. How emotional affairs can affect a marriage is by the spouse not owning what they have done.

Even though they may not have cheated with this person, they have shared so many intimate details with that person that cheating is the next step. This is because the same emotional bond that they shared with their spouse was the same emotional beginning that led up to the couple falling in love and then marrying. Now the spouse is sharing this same emotional connection with another person.

Saving a Marriage From the Brink of Disaster

Advertisement: If you ever need any help with fixing your marriage, I would suggest you take a look at this video (opens in a new tab):

The ultimate couples guide to a perfect marriage by Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.

If a spouse is wondering how an emotional affair can affect a marriage they can start by looking for signs in their spouse. If their spouse is no longer sharing intimate talks with them they are most likely sharing it with someone else. If a spouse has become more distant toward them it could mean that their emotional bond with someone else is pulling them away from their marriage. The way to save a marriage at this point is to get back into the spouses life and find out what is going on with them. Emotional bonds can be diverted.

A spouse can become their lovers best friend again by communicating their fears and being completely honest with their spouse. Remind them of the good times that they used to have when they were both in love. Most spouses just need to be reminded of why they decided to marry in the first place. An injured spouse should know that it is not their fault that their spouse chose to go to someone else with their emotional needs. The first step is finding the reason why the couple has stopped communicating in the first place. Once they become emotional partners again their spouses will no longer have a need to share with anyone else.

RSS
Follow by Email
Facebook
Twitter
Pinterest