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Sex, Marriage and Compatibility – Soul Mate Connections Are Not What You Think

Sex, Marriage and Compatibility – Soul Mate Connections Are Not What You Think

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Sometimes people are drawn together like magnets, yet the

compatibility is questionable. It’s not smooth sailing to

say the least, and trying to make it permanent is akin to

strapping a 45lb weight to your back for the rest of your


Might the inability to part ways, the intense draw, be a

mysterious working of fate? Yes. “Soul mate” connections

very often include plenty of strife and heavy lessons,

without the presumed romantic bliss.

Based on our comprehensive astrology and numerology work,

two people can absolutely be incompatible, yet they may

stay together for other reasons. Know that person A might

have great overall compatibility with person B, but not

with person C. Varying, unique degrees of intellectual,

emotional, spiritual, physical and sexual compatibility

exist between every couple.

Despite a lack of compatibility, some such couples say no

amount of effort is too much to save a relationship if they

are deeply in love. We recommend looking at what “deeply in

love” really means to you. What exactly do you feel for the

person and why? Is there an early life, dysfunctional dynamic

being played out for either or both of you? Is the connection

held together by guilt due to one or both of you being afraid

to walk away? Exactly how much sacrifice is involved for you

or him? Is it really a great connection, or is it more about

what they do for you or voids they fill for you? Are you

afraid to be alone? Are you concerned about financial

security? You’ve got to be brutally honest with yourself

if you want clarity.

Every person you meet is for a different reason, or reasons.

It’s not easy to overrule your heart and be totally objective

in your romantic life, but it will save you heartache. Dating

is easier when you accept each situation for what it is

instead of trying to cast a play (husband or wife role,

provider, etc.).

To help you understand more about romantic compatibility,

we’ll list some of our findings. We have yet to invalidate

the following considerations through our extensive work

over the years: some romantic connections include

questionable compatibility, but the shared or compatible

timing (long-term or short-term) serves as the foundation

of the draw; some connections are horrible, but the

“unexplainable” draw is intense and serves to help them

fulfill the karmic implications of this particular “soul

mate” connection (one or both “owe” each other in not so

pleasant ways); some people have great life-long love karma,

some people have fair life-long love karma, and others have

terrible life-long love karma; one’s personal timing (long-

term and, or short-term), if very good in relation to love-

life, can symbolically, somewhat mitigate one’s life-long

challenging love-life karma; one’s personal timing, if very

challenging in connection with love, can symbolically wreck

one’s love life even if they have great life-long love karma

(as reflected in the patterns in the comprehensive charts).

We feel that a highly compatible match does not need a lot

of “work” or compromise. If you are complete by yourself

and have your life together, finding someone to share it

with should not require you to give up your goals, friends,

hobbies, or what you’ve worked hard for.

At the same time, compatible, harmonious matches that also

share a high degree of sexual chemistry are few and far

between for most people. Some people would rather be with

someone who is semi-compatible, or not compatible at all

instead of being alone. Others are content to be alone and

concentrate on other areas of their life, like career, until

they meet someone they feel is worth sharing their time with.

It’s up to you, yet our work tells us that people are largely

going to do what they are predestined to do, so as long as

you remain objective and respond with compassion and

unconditional love, you’ll be fine.

Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

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