How to Romance Your Wife When Your Marriage is Cracking
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Do you want to find that ‘spark’ that led you and your wife to marry each other in the first place?
You deserve a wonderful marriage, and even if things aren’t looking so great right now, I promise you that with a little bit of effort and a better understanding of how women work and what they respond to, you can re-attract your wife to you and make her WANT to come back. Our goal isn’t to change her mind, rather, it’s to change our own minds to a state that makes her WANT to change her own.
When your wife is questioning her decision to leave you entirely of her own volition, that’s when you’re on the right track to saving your marriage… In fact, chances are that things will become even better than they were before.
I hope that by now you realize that marriage counseling and therapy, long books and seminars, communication and persistence, are NOT the key to saving your marriage.
These are generally tactics that are developed by women, for women… Which you would think would make them more successful, but unfortunately the female gender doesn’t really know what they want. Most women won’t know how to rekindle your marriage or what your wife needs to hear; I’m willing to bet that the majority of information you’ve been told this far is based on conjecture and theory, not actual successful, happy, fulfilling marriages.
But I’m sure that you already realize that what you’ve been trying to do until now isn’t working, so let’s not dwell on that.
Instead, let’s focus on what WILL get your wife to come running back to you and feeling safe, feeling wanted, and feeling loved…
Building Attraction Will Save Your Marriage!
This is the untold secret to saving your marriage. Indeed, any relationship could benefit from this knowledge.
* Women traditionally don’t respond to desperation.
* Women traditionally don’t respond to ‘let’s just work at it’ or ‘we just need more intimacy time and date nights’.
* Women don’t respond to communication, especially if your marriage is in the dumps.
In short, what works to keep an already-happy couple’s marriage healthy doesn’t work on a broken, decaying marriage.
Women respond to one thing and one thing alone… Their own feelings and emotions. To woo your wife you need to treat your wife in a way that makes her WANT to follow you. This actually isn’t a bad thing; it’s good for us because now we know exactly how to save your marriage…
We just have to make your wife feel attracted to you again.
“Again?” you ask, “What do you mean ‘again’?”
I mean exactly what I said – at some point in your relationship you had built an attraction with your wife that was immensely powerful. I want you to imagine back to when you and your wife first met…
* Think about the first time you had a real, long conversation with each other
* Remember the feeling of butterflies in your stomach when you saw her smile and laugh; remember checking her out when she looked away.
* Imagine the rush of your first time being intimate with each other…The first time you were exposed to her, and how completely absorbed in each other you were
Do you see what I’m talking about now?
In all actuality it’s quite easy to know how to romance your wife, even when things are down – You just have to get that ‘feeling’ back, and believe it or not, it’s not as difficult as you might think. After all, remember that you were the one who built attraction with your wife in the first place… You were doing something right then, and you can do something right again, now.
How to Romance Your Wife and Finally Rekindle Your Marriage
If you can learn how to unlock the best version of yourself – The version of yourself that is fearless, strong and self-confident – then you will catch your wife’s eye once again. Women have a strong sense of intuition, so if you can truly put your best foot forward then you won’t have to do much else because she will pick up on it quickly, and once she does you’re set.
Once she starts feeling wanted, feeling loved, feeling safe, feeling sexy, then she’ll also FEEL like she wants to be with you. But you can’t make her feel anything with your words; you need to change your behavior patterns to trigger her feelings and emotions. No matter how many times you say ‘I love you’ you won’t change the way she feels, it will take something more.
By finding that elite version of yourself and learning how to master it (which I’ll talk more about later), you are in effect pouring gasoline on the tiny match that now represents your marriage…Even though your marriage is barely flickering now, it only takes a little bit of fuel to make things explode into an inferno of love, lust and passion once again. It’s not hard to learn how to rekindle your marriage; once you ‘get it’ it will just sort of flow together. The trick is ‘getting it’.
I hope that you’ve found this article helpful – I want you to fully understand how to romance your wife when you’re the only one trying to save your marriage. It’s completely different matter to understand how to romance your wife when your marriage is swimming strong, and how to romance your wife when your marriage is in the pits. It’s 2 different skills, and you’ll need to develop each of them equally.