( “Meet Your Dream Girl
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Probably every man on the planet has an image in his head of the perfect girl âx80x93 the dream girl who he would worship and stay with forever. The problem is he just never manages to find her. She remains an elusive image that seems unattainable.
I’m here to tell you that you can meet your dream girl. It’s a lot easier than you think. Just talk to some other guys on the PUA Forum and you’ll see.
The first step in meeting your dream girl is simple âx80x93 determining just who that dream girl is. You might think you already know what she is like based on the movie reel footage that runs through your mind and imagination when you think about her. But that’s not good enough. If you are really serious about meeting your dream girl, you have to do a little bit of work and preparation. It’s all part of the steps in How To Get A Girlfriend.
Here’s what you do: Grab a pen and notebook and find a quiet place. Make a list of qualities your dream girl has. You can close your eyes and imagine her if that helps. I want your list to have several columns. You can decide what they might be, but they should probably include these: Physical traits and characteristics, Personality traits, Hobbies and interests, and so on, you get the idea.
For instance, your dream girl composite list might read like this one.
âx80¢ Physical traits: brunette, brown eyes, petite, olive skin, shapely, large breasts, full lips, small wrists.
âx80¢ Personality traits: great sense of humor, playful, a little bit shy, blushes easily, sweet, not a pushover.
âx80¢ Hobbies and interests: likes professional baseball, likes art museums, engages in some physical activity or sport, such as running or playing volleyball
âx80¢ Values: strong religious beliefs, same political views as me
âx80¢ Career: loves her job, which is probably in some sort of caring field, such as nursing or social work or something that is valuable in helping others.
One more thing about the list, I want you to classify each item on it as a negotiable and non-negotiable item. For instance, if a woman doesn’t share your strong religious beliefs and has no interest in them, it is just not going to work. That is a value ad lifestyle difference that is a deal breaker. Be very careful which items you label as deal breakers.
So now you have your list of your dream woman and her qualities. Hopefully yours is a bit longer than my example. But here’s what I want you to do, I want you to keep the list, but keep it in a drawer somewhere.
Now, when you meet a woman who you think might have some of these qualities, I want you to get your list out and do a little comparison. I guarantee you, that you will never find a woman with 100 percent of these same traits, so I’m telling you right now that if you find someone with 75 percent of them, grab a hold and don’t let go. That is unless there are some deal breakers that don’t’ match up.
I think that is probably one of the biggest problems men with images of dream girls have âx80x93 we think it needs to match up 100 percent. Here’s a little secret âx80x93 if it matches up 75 percent, then you are one lucky guy.