3 Ways To Build Emotional Connection With Women

Both men and women are in truth, emotional creatures. Fellas, don’t front, there’s a soft spot inside every one of you. Most of you inherit it from your mom. We may not express it at any given moment, but in order for an initial attraction to evolve into something deeper and more meaningful, you and your woman need to build a chemistry fertile foundation; which all begins with the building of an emotional connection with her.

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Better yet, in order to take things to the physical level, you need to erupt up her inner emotional volcano, not just climb her curvaceous mountain.

Tell her your story. Both of you without a doubt may have some parts in your past that you messed up along the way, and the way to connect with her deeper is to let her in on your story, sparing no details. Exchanging personal stories or experiences that had a profound effect on you is commands a powerful response, called reciprocity.

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When you share your story, it triggers a natural human reaction in the woman to swap a story as if it were prerequisite. Of course, this approach isn’t recommendable with guys, but women are habitually fastened to this behavior.

When a woman feels compelled to reveal her personal information, she’ll inadvertently feel closer to you. Word is bond. She will rationalize that a healthy connection must exist with you if she is revealing so much about herself. You wouldn’t just spill your beans to a stranger would you? No.

Note: Don’t mistaken the concept of personal disclosure with showering her with your life story. You’re going to spoil her mood and kill the sexual vibe. That’s a dating no no. It’ll become too overwhelming if you don’t moderate the length of your talk.

The secret: Share a thin slice of your past, not the whole pizza. A thin slice suffices and whets her appetite to share back. Give her the whole pan, and she’ll no longer starving for you.

Follow up with several bold and intriguing stories with another story that makes you seem vulnerable. This paints you in a better-rounded three-dimensional picture. If the woman was intrigued by your previous stories, she will respond emotionally to your tale of loss or difficulty.

Women are pathologically pre-programmed to be nurturing for those who are hurt, and those that they care about. Ok, some may be an anomaly. The point of this story however, is to let your guard down and let the woman see a softer, more sensitive side to yourself. Remember, do this with due moderation otherwise you’re just going to trap yourself into the dreaded friends zone.

And finally, regardless of what you say, never, never ever lie to your woman. No, I’m not partaking in any feminist movement, but, unless all you want is superficial relationships, never lie, just as you wouldn’t want to be lied to. That way you won’t have to remember to cover your tracks in the near future.

If you’re going to lie, you might as well keep it to yourself. Got a story that inspired or served as a pivotal moment to your life? Share it. Women love the drama, just never overdo it.

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